Loss hits everybody differently. We get use to a certain way of living and when that changes it’s hard to adjust. This past year I have experienced loss, but I chose to look a things differently (glass half full). The losses that I have experienced have allowed me to refocus and align my life properly which has opened doors for growth for me as a person, as a mom and in my career. Let’s face It change isn’t easy but change is necessary.

Some changes we have to make will alter the plans that we may have for our lives. Unexpected changes in my opinion are signals for you to change some things that you have tried to ignore. There has been a lot of death in 2020. None that effect me directly but all show a loss and sometimes we just don’t understand why things are taken from us so suddenly. Is it to make us learn to value what we have already in front of us before its too late? I think so and we all should take time to sit and listen and observe to be more aware of the changes that need to be made in our own lives.

I strongly believe that everything happens for a reason although we may not understand the reasons behind tragic events, God has a purpose for everything that he puts us through. I write this to say let go of grudges let go of past hurt because you never know when your time or a loved ones time is up and you won’t have the opportunity to make peace with those people. I’m speaking to myself and I’m speaking to others when it comes to grudges. There’s no need to hold onto them; hold onto the people that have been an important part of your life no matter if they’re no longer a part of your life anymore the least u can do is release the hurt and pain that person may have caused you and have a clear conscience.

~ The Mouthy Introvert